Question by Jeremiah: Should i help her get clean?
My EX Girlfriend Leslie recently came to me and asked to help her get clean. She is a drug addict and has been for years. I myself am a recovering addict but i have been clean for 5 years. We used together years ago and she did nothing when i OD and almost died. I still love her but i bore resentment towards her for not helping me in a near death experience. I know she was high and fucked up but i still think she could have done something. I don’t know if she is sincere either. We both went into rehab before i got clean but she quickly relapsed. I think she might just be trying to get back together with me. As much as i would like that i can’t be with her if she is using it threatens my sobriety and is too much of a risk. Should i help her or not?
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Answer by ricardo9505 people
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best to get others involved if u love her and stay away. U have too much history and u can relapse so easily.
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Question by : Should I allow my children to see their father in a drug treatment center?!?
My love and the father of my children is taking part in a six month rehabilitation program, because hes a heroine addict. He has been an IV drug user for about six months, and finally checked himself in because he claims he really wants help and wants to be a part of my and the kids life. I just don’t know if its a good idea to take my children, who are two and four, to visit their father. I mean hes in there with a whole bunch of people like him who have some sort of drug problem and I dont know if it would be appropriate for my babies to be around people like that. I mean I know that they need to see their dad and its already been a few weeks which is a really long time for my four year old who has seen her dad everyday of her little life before this. She really wants to see him and really misses him. She blames herself that she can’t see daddy and that he can’t live with us right now; I think her being able to see him and see that hes okay would help her be okay with the whole situation. I just don’t know if they should be in that kind of enviroment. I told her that he was sick and had to go to the hospital, I just dont want it to hurt them anymore. Another thing is in one month he can leave the facility for a few hours… should I just wait!??
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Answer by Bobydob i think you should take the children to see their dad…you dont say if youve visited yourself, but usually these centres never have any tell tale signs that the patients are drug users, and obviously everybody there is clean for the duration of their stay, so they will be reletavely normal people….why dont you go on your own first and see what you think?
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Question by Katie: Should someone who suffers from alcoholism join the Air force?
My husband is 27 years old. The past year he has come to realize he suffers from alcoholism. He is extreamly smart and alread as a BA degree. But a BA doesnt do much these days. He wants to join the Air force to get training in a specific feild , that he coudl carry out into civilian life. He also hopes to gain his masters there. This past year has been realy hard for us because of his drinking. He has been in out patient since Agust. And 2 weeks ago he went into inpatient. He will be in inpatent till this agust. He hopes with in a few months after getting out to join the Airforce. Im concerned that he will pick drinking up again once he joins . I know people in the military drink a lot. Whne your not working your drinking. Can anyone who has been in the airforce tell me do you think it is a wise decision for him to join? Do they have support group for people who drink? Do they have seperate living quaters for people who dont want to drink? I know a lot fo the reason he drinks is…
because he doesnt have a good job. He says he wants to go and he wont drink while there because he will have a focus and a goal. Im afraid being surrounded by people who drink will make him relapse.
Do people in the airforce drink as much as other branches in the military?
Question by pjf872001: I am sober for the first time in 25 years. Pretty much starting life at age 38.What should I do to make money.
I dont have anymore time to waste.
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Answer by GG i 100% understand you. im in the same boat (not with drinking but with no time to waste) try security, sales, telemarketing,retail,or get a city or county or state entry level position. go to their websites and find out about available poistions,etc.also look into cashier work or public transportation.
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Question by Anissa Jones: Should I return to work yet after being on disability for alcoholism and bipolar?
I just completed an outpatient alcohol rehab program that lasted four weeks. I’ve been sober now for about 33 days. Prior to going out on disability for this, I was messing up at work constantly, and it wasn’t entirely due to alcoholism. I never drank on the job or before work. Since I’ve been out on disability, I got written up & am in danger of getting fired. I have bipolar, depression & anxiety really bad and takes meds for these conditions. I have now cross transferred my alcohol addiction to being addicted to a male friend I met in rehab. I think of him 24/7 and can’t function. I’m 46 years old, btw. He only wants to be friends w/me, but he gave me so much attention that I’ve been yearning from a man since I was a teen. Should I discontinue contact w/him & go out on mental disability for a few more weeks? My job is very stressful for anyone really. Thx.
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Answer by K. Only you can know the answers to your questions. Our opinions don’t matter.
Question by kc: Should I start a blog or website for addiction/recovery related information?
We have learned a great deal about recovering from narcotic addiction and have found several methods that work well. This is information drug treatment programs would not want out since it would cause them to lose a large number of patients. Would it be better to start with a blog or a website? We eventually hope to make this into an alternative business that would help people get of methadone clinics. Any advice would be greatly appreciated as there is a dire need for this information. Thank you.
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Answer by J D Yes Thats A GRATEful Idea
Interaction With Others Is An XLNT Means Of Support
For Recovering Addicts
Start With A Blog…
See If The FEEDBACK Warrants Any Additions To Your “Program”
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Question by Mark H: What should I wear to a job interview at a drug rehab?
I have a job interview at a drug rehab as a rehab tech. Helping clients with there day to day life while in rehab assisting with activities and the recovery process. Should i wear a polo w/ dress pants? Dress shirt tie dress pants? Dress shirt tie sweater dress pants? Full suit?
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Answer by Diane A It doesn’t matter what the actual job is, you should always over dress. Probably not a full suit, but tie and dress shirt & pants. This is where you make that impression and most experts say you have about 5 seconds to do that.
Question by “smooothoperator”: Can a couple that were once drug addicts get clean and stay together clean and sober? or should they split?
Hello, a really good friend of mine started doing drugs with her boyfriend about a year ago and finally realized they hit rock bottom so they went to a couple of AA/NA meetings and relapsed a few times but a majority of people at the meetings keep telling them that they will never make it “together” because they are both triggers to each other. But then another couple said they are doing it clean and sober for 8 months now. She keeps asking me what to do, should she break up with him, get clean then see if it will work or just break up and be friends or just try it? She is totally putting her relationship in my hands but I am scared of giving her the wrong answers. Id rather NOT be involved in any way. But I am her bestest friend so please can I get some input?
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Answer by breanna m you can definately make it together. you can correct your mistakes and lean on eachother to get through it. as long as the ot her person isnt pulling you down and holding you back from getting better
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