Question by ya360: My son’s father and I are not working out due to alcoholism. He says he’ll leave but never does,how to get out?
We broke up once before and got back together. now a year and a half later. I need to get away. He’s not a bad person just an alcoholic. Every night he becomes wasted, he pees on furniture, trashes the house, he’s also bi polar. I’ve asked him to leave, and he says that he’ll look for a place but he never does, he just manipulates the emotions and snakes back in. I’m emotional drained and I just want him gone. He won’t leave. He’s acting out of love and doing what he thinks is right, it just coming from a warped perception. The thing that sucks is that we just moved out of state, and just signed a year lease. I cannot afford it by myself. He already told me that he does not want to pay for anything. I thought about leaving, but all my furniture is mine. what do I do
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Answer by daljack -a girl Give him 30 days to find another place to live….and then put him out.
You should join Al-Anon….it helps family members deal with the alcoholic in their family…..do this for you and your son.
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Ok,medicine works,but eventually,it comes down to emotional cravings(of cource ,after stopping treatment,thinking that,now I don’t need any medicine,I can handle my emotions myself without any medicine).well I had tried COLD TURKEY,but not much success.Well now I think that TAPPERING method is very good,but I need some one who can tell me how to use this method correctely.to tell u,I take 36 capsules in a day,with 3 shifts of 12 capsukes each, Namely SPASMO PROXYVON(my source of opiates).I want to know that how much quantity of capsules should I reduce each week(or 15 days or months as u suggest,with ur experience),so that I don’t feel much cravings,what kind of activity I should I do to keep my focus away from opiates.Meditation works,plz tell me the correct way and timing of doing meditation.Is there any specific diet which may reduce my temptation……or if u had invented any certain new method which works for u personally?……………well congratulations to u my frnd,for getting ur freedom back…….so plzz help me to get my freedom back…….. .
Well the thing is that the persons who had never been abused drugs,may give u advice that” quiting drugs should be a chilkd’s play for me,if im in ur position”.But a person,who had actually been gone thru this hell(of drugs),may know the suffering and pain of another addict……….thanx for reading and hopefully answering…………….god xless u my frnd………
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