i dont mean just the child abuse that is found in lower class trailors with meth addicts. but child neglect happens in so called good families who go to good schools. so what is it? do these kids grow up and acheive some or alot of sucess just by being around good families and schools and opportunities despite how evil the parents are and one day realized thta they never had a chance… it catches up to them?
is it a failure of a father? a narcissistic mother? a mother guilting their children for life until they kil themselves for the fathers lacking?
i think i have a bad COMBINATION of things in my parents total trainwreck of a marriage that they insist on beating and beating everything more and more.
my sister is a sociopath personality. DEEP seeded shit in the mother. and she caused me all kinds of hell but eventually was like crossing the streams in ghostbusters to my head. the father is a failure as a father and the mother perhaps does have traumatizing things from a child rape? but she is crazy as hell, narcissistic… too embarassed to get help or talk about anything.. she CANT let go.. i have never heard her breath easy. she is in politics now too!!! what a fucked up world/country. perhaps she had children or did one thing after another to counter the fathers failure(s) or further denial by not opening up to friends.. she has friends who is a female judge and all about flashing money. her kids are flat out evil shits.. they will walk into a room univited and break things and laugh. aunts, unclesand grandparents r bett
Tags: Causes, Children, mother, neglect
Thats a very touchy and complicated question. Some parents/mothers have depression or bi polar disorder, or post traumatic stress disorder and they dont realize what they are doing.
In the end, dispite how the child is raised, it is up to the child to make sure they are a responsible adult. Everyone has a decision to make; you can go one way or the other. Its a choice. No child has to grow up and become their parents.
Some people do not need children.They still only have time for themselves.Women have children to keep their man,to prove a point to another woman,or they believe the lies men tell them to go to bed. Children are stressful,and they read about all these fairy tales,and think love on LIFETIME is real.People that understand what it takes to raise a family,have good families.I know of women having babies to get a check for support,then they do not have to work that much.Kids are born because some people,want to have them.They really do not get it,but the ones that have a hard life dream about having all the things they see on TV and that others have and sometimes that motivates them not to be life their parents were.But a lot of time the burden of poverty to to heavy that you cannot see a way to get out of it.People do say things to hold you back because they do not know or have the knowledge to pick themselves up and try something new.When you only know one way to live and raise kids you pass that process,then you pass that way on to the next generation.
Sometimes it has to do with relationships. They seem to want to give attention only to the spouse or boyfriends. The boyfriends or step dad may not love the kids, this causes the mom to see them as a burden. Also moms may want more time for themselves to come and go freely, and having small kids keeps them from doing so and they start to neglect the kids. This is why it’s important to have a father around, or a wonderful adult. Moms need to to take time for themselves too.
Your question is what causes a mother to neglect their children.Well some people in the world should ever be allowed to have children.In some cases the child has some one close to turn too,a aunt,a grandmother and the child will find the right way in life and grow to find that they are the stronger person.In other cases the low life parents are all the child has and is left with this life.Maybe the mother has some kind a mental illness that she is too ashamed to speak about or maybe doesn’t realize what it is? Maybe she just a sorry excuse for a human being?No child should go through that,and there are numbers a child can call to get help for both him/or her-self and the parents or parent.They can start by talking to a counselor at school or a teacher.It is NEVER a child’s fault for a father leaving,please remember that.