Jan 22
Is there really a possibility for sobriety after an alcoholism treatment?
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My father has just been to an alcoholism treatment. Since then, he’s been doing great, posing as a real great father to all of us. I am actually silently hoping that he’ll stay sober for as long as he lives, but I wonder if that is possible. I am not being pessimistic here; it’s just that I heard stories of relapse. Now, I’m afraid for my father. Can he actually be sober for a lifetime after receiving a treatment?
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For most people, sobriety is a personal choice. If one is determined to say sober until he dies, he can aptly actualize it. But to substantiate that decision, it will be wise of him to continue working on his sober living right after receiving an alcoholism treatment. Group meetings and counseling are two of the most widely-known after-treatment dealings that a recovering alcoholic can do.
Anyway, I am glad that your father is all right now, and I wish that he’ll be sober for the rest of his life to make a wonderful parent to you and the rest of your siblings.
Yes there are possibilities of relapses. But it really depends on the person’s will power to stay off it. Who knows? Maybe he won’t touch it ever again.
It will take you awhile to trust your dad again. And, that is normal. People can stay sober. We just have to go to meetings, get a sponsor and work with other alcoholics. At least that is how it worked for me.
Are you attending Alanon or Alateen meetings. I really think it would be good for you and your dad if you at least tried. A lot of family members think they shouldn’t have to go to meetings because they aren’t the one with the problem.
But, as family members of alcoholic there is often more “sickness” because you have had no way outlet to deal with your pain.
Give your dad the space he needs to work his program and do whatever you can to support him.
Relapse happens but is not necessary to recovery. Good luck to you all and be blessed.